TIPS FOR PARENTS

TIPS FOR PARENTS 

Being  parent we always think of ways that can lead to child's betterment . To make the child understand what is good or what is bad for them , most of the time we land up shouting or yelling on the child by saying harsh words . 
Though our intention is for the betterment of the child but from the child's perspective , those harsh words are always hurtingto the sentiments . These words seems to be ordinary but they can affect the whole personality of your child .
Hence , in order to bring up your child with a positive and healthy outlook , it is necessary to keep a check on what kind of words and phrases we are using with our children . 

Always make sure that you as a responsible parents are not making use of these two phrases : 

1. Because I'm your parent so you have to do so ...

Always keep into consideration that if you want to say 'NO' to your child if he demands anything , you should be ready with an explanation . By saying that you are a parent and that is why he has to follow your instructions , is no way to make your child understand . It is important that your child understands why he is not allowed of doing what he wants .

2. Why cant you be like your brother or sister ?

One of the biggest mistakes that we as a parent make is to compare siblings . Comparing your child with sibling will only lower down his confidence an he would not be able to face challenges . Every child has his own abilities. If your one child is good in academics , may be the other one is good at drawing .Always highlight your child's achievements and groom him in his area of interest . It will help your child to be self dependent .